he's just not that into you

damn you, man... if you're not that into a girl, just don't make any move or approach her in the first place.

or even if you're interested but change your mind later on, at least have a decency to send the message clearly to her... be man enough not to just disappear like you never existed before.

but if you just consider her as your friend, i.e. a regular-nothing-special friend, then why do you have to change and stop talking to her?